There is no easy way to put this.....
Sue passed away earlier this morning in the Beacon Centre, Taunton
Her sister Rachel was with her as she peacefully slipped into the next world and the loving arms of those members of her family who had gone before her
As you would expect her room has had a procession of visitors, young and not so young over this week and the staff have been magnificent, showing compassion for both Sue and all around her in bucketloads
Now she is free of all the limitations of her condition to be Sue again
The sun ought to get it's act together today as there is one new star up there shining so brightly we will all need our sunglasses
God bless you Sue xxx
Just to let you know...
Hi and Welcome to Sue's World. I started this blog to keep family and friends informed after being diagnosed with Breast Cancer in February 2009. In March 2011 I was diagnosed with Secondary Breast Cancer. This is about my treatment and how things are going, but mainly to keep them amused with the silly little things that happen to me!!! Read on with interest and please feel free to make any comments, serious or fun, it all helps!!! Sue xx
Friday 14 June 2013
Tuesday 11 June 2013
Latest on Sue
As she told you herself Sue had the second lot of ascites fluid drained a couple of weeks ago
Unfortunately after she returned from hospital on the Wednesday she started to become quite unwell - lots of vomiting which the GP seemed unable to control with anti-emetics
Eventually we managed to persuade her, much against her better judgement, to go to A and E on the Sunday where she was kept in
To cut a long story short the vomiting was as a result of her kidney stent failing and subsequent high levels of calcium in her blood
Eventually she was moved to the Beacon ward last Tuesday and since then she has deteriorated gradually as her kidneys and liver functions have reduced
Yesterday her oncologist told her family that there was little else they could do except palliative care
She is still on the Beacon ward and is being looked after by their wonderful staff
I have seen her this evening and she is comfortable but I am unsure if she is aware who is around her. As you would expect she has had lots of visitors. The staff feel that she will not be with us for that much longer but it is impossible to quantify this as she is still relatively young and was quite fit before this latest episode so it could be hours or several days
Before she drifted into this gentle state of resting and sleeping we have had some lovely 'Sue' moments and she has also tried to 'escape' several times much to the consternation of the staff
So please join us in smiling at these thoughts and hold her in your heart for as long as she's still with us
Unfortunately after she returned from hospital on the Wednesday she started to become quite unwell - lots of vomiting which the GP seemed unable to control with anti-emetics
Eventually we managed to persuade her, much against her better judgement, to go to A and E on the Sunday where she was kept in
To cut a long story short the vomiting was as a result of her kidney stent failing and subsequent high levels of calcium in her blood
Eventually she was moved to the Beacon ward last Tuesday and since then she has deteriorated gradually as her kidneys and liver functions have reduced
Yesterday her oncologist told her family that there was little else they could do except palliative care
She is still on the Beacon ward and is being looked after by their wonderful staff
I have seen her this evening and she is comfortable but I am unsure if she is aware who is around her. As you would expect she has had lots of visitors. The staff feel that she will not be with us for that much longer but it is impossible to quantify this as she is still relatively young and was quite fit before this latest episode so it could be hours or several days
Before she drifted into this gentle state of resting and sleeping we have had some lovely 'Sue' moments and she has also tried to 'escape' several times much to the consternation of the staff
So please join us in smiling at these thoughts and hold her in your heart for as long as she's still with us
Sunday 9 June 2013
Update
We realise a lot of you will have been wondering how Sue is doing so this is a very quick update
She is still in hospital and is really pretty poorly
We have made sure that we have passed all of your messages of love and support onto her
We will update the blog as soon as we are able to
Thanks to everyone for their good wishes
Anne and Lynne xxx
She is still in hospital and is really pretty poorly
We have made sure that we have passed all of your messages of love and support onto her
We will update the blog as soon as we are able to
Thanks to everyone for their good wishes
Anne and Lynne xxx
Monday 3 June 2013
Breaking News......
As Sue is currently in hospital
here is a message from her friend Lynne:
“Well as some of you already
know Sue has been re-admitted to Musgrove Park Hospital.
Yesterday afternoon, after 4 days of struggling to
keep fluids down and getting very dehydrated, we as a group of friends, talked
Sue into thinking it was the best decision to go and get everything checked
out.
After a very uncomfortable 4
hours in A&E, Sue was reluctantly admitted to her nemesis ward - Medical Assessment Unit. Unfortunately MAU is a very busy ward, very
noisy and not a good place to be for the sleep deprived.
Blood tests confirmed the
dehydration and also a high blood calcium which needed to be treated urgently. The high calcium levels were causing the
nausea and vomiting as well as making Sue feel very weak and quite confused. Also the dryness in the mouth had brought on
another bout of oral thrush that was picked up by the consultant who came to
see her on MAU.
After much persistence from Sue
and an emotional phone call, the staff on MAU managed to get Sue moved to Ward
9 which specialises in treating oncology and haematology patients, and although
she wasn't treated to the single (party) room like her last visit to that ward
it is certainly much quieter than MAU.
Sue said she had a terrible
night with lots of pains in her arms but that was also due to the calcium
levels.
The plan of action for today was
to rehydrate as far as possible without causing the oedema to return. This would hopefully bring down the calcium
levels and improve all symptoms. During
the afternoon Sue had an ultrasound scan of her kidneys and abdomen just to see
that the stents fitted at Christmas were working properly.
Good news is that following
rehydration Sue has become more coherent and less confused and is looking a bit
brighter. I've just heard she's been
moved to the Beacon Inpatient Ward (specialist oncology unit) which will please
her no end.
The plan when Sue is
discharged is to get a sensible care package organised which will give Sue some
independence and allow her to stay at home as much as possible and help Holly
with the caring whilst making sure Sue is looked after properly.”
Tuesday 14 May 2013
Reports confirmed some good and not so good news...
The good news is the largest tumours in my liver have reduced in size. There appears to be moderate amount of fluid in my left kidney, which we didn't discuss so will pick that up on my next appointment. Overall statement - Stable and No significant change.
Not so good news is the Acities which I was expecting "suggests progressive peritoneal disease". I know the fluid was increasing because although I haven't put on any weight, the increasing size of my belly despite using natural diuretics, is quite obvious.
More not so good news was that my liver functions have deteriorated again.
Moving forward the plan is - Not to take any Mistletoe Therapy, continue with my Chlorella, Spirulina and Astragalus (herbal remedies) and check my bloods in 3 weeks time. Hopefully the improvement trend will be reinstated and I can start Chemo. Despite the tumours in my liver not increasing in size, chemo is needed to reduce the Acities activity. Arrangements are in place to have the Acities drained again and send off a sample of fluid for testing.
Despite the mixed bag here I feel pretty confident that this is all manageable. Even a few cycles of Capcitabin doesn't seem too bad. Gives me a chance to source some more herbal remedies :-)
Next appointment is 4th June which will fly by as the last 3 weeks have done. I hope we can have some more sun in the meantime so we can all top up on some much needed Vitamin D! xx
Not so good news is the Acities which I was expecting "suggests progressive peritoneal disease". I know the fluid was increasing because although I haven't put on any weight, the increasing size of my belly despite using natural diuretics, is quite obvious.
More not so good news was that my liver functions have deteriorated again.
Moving forward the plan is - Not to take any Mistletoe Therapy, continue with my Chlorella, Spirulina and Astragalus (herbal remedies) and check my bloods in 3 weeks time. Hopefully the improvement trend will be reinstated and I can start Chemo. Despite the tumours in my liver not increasing in size, chemo is needed to reduce the Acities activity. Arrangements are in place to have the Acities drained again and send off a sample of fluid for testing.
Despite the mixed bag here I feel pretty confident that this is all manageable. Even a few cycles of Capcitabin doesn't seem too bad. Gives me a chance to source some more herbal remedies :-)
Next appointment is 4th June which will fly by as the last 3 weeks have done. I hope we can have some more sun in the meantime so we can all top up on some much needed Vitamin D! xx
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